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In other words, it’s really not about the amount of time.
It’s about the intent, the hunting, the feeding, the drinking in, the filling up.”She describes also:“…a different person I know who captures image impressions of women’s bodies and files them away mentally for later fantasy use.
One thing is for sure; if a man has already identified himself as having problematic, compulsive sexual behavior then his ogling is probably one of his array of sexually addictive behaviors.
What ogling does Remembering images and having fantasies is not at all pathological in itself.
He is very subtle about his looking, yet he is able to get a potent hit, even though his eyes only “flick” briefly onto a woman’s body.
A man who can’t help staring at other women may be just a rude guy or his ogling may be part of a pattern of sexually compulsive behavior.
But sexual looking and sexual evaluation of strangers can be seen as unwanted and invasive in itself, quite apart form its impact on partners of sex addicts.
Some women may want to be looked at, but some may feel slimed or even violated by it.
And since the ogler has not way of knowing it’s best to assume that there is something uninvited and even potentially voyeuristic about it.
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